Why do people save themselves for marriage? There should be a rule that you have to have sex before you get married just to make sure that it’s what both people want and can live with for the rest of their lives. That is what marriage is supposed to be, right? Eternal, loving, committed, enjoyable? No matter what a marriage is supposed to be, I know what mine is not. There is love there, but I can’t say that I’m in love, maybe I never was. Maybe I was just in lust, and thought the sex would bring out the love. Maybe it would if the sex were any good.…