I’m Allan a recently widowed man in his late 30’s. When my wife died a few months ago many of the neighbours more or less avoided me as they didn’t know what to say but recently they have become friendly again and I have been invited to a couple of parties. I didn’t stay long at either as I was by myself and I went just to put in an appearance. A couple of days after the second party Jill and Sue knocked on my door and I invited them in for a coffee. They were both in their early 30’s married with children but still very attractive. If either…